Hello Baby readers 😀
Well as usual, I’m doing fine huni. Today topic is kinda cute haha. Don’t u think so?
Nvm if u don’t! Okay, It’s not always easy to tell if a boy/girl has a crush on you. Some boys like to tease girls they have a crush on, while others are more romantic and open about their feelings. Though every person is different, there are many tell-tale signs that a boy likes you as more than just a friend. Once you know the truth, you can be on your way to starting a relationship with the boy, or can just feel satisfied by knowing the score. If you want to know how to tell if a boy/girl has a crush on you, then you read stuff below.
1. Check on what he does
I’m gonna kick off by starting with checking on some a few points of men.
– He tries to impress u: If a boy has a crush on you, then he’ll go out of his way to try to impress you by acting brave, exciting, cool, or even wacky. The next time you’re around the boy who might have a crush on you, see if he starts trying to say or do something that is calculated to impress you. If he tries to show off when he’s playing sports, brags about his awesome weekend plans, tries to do something crazy like jump in a pool with his clothes on, or engages in other behavior that seems calculated to impress you, then he may have a crush on you.
- Watch him closely when he does something “impressive.” If he keeps looking over at you to make sure you’re paying attention or to see what you think, then there’s a good chance he has a crush on you.
- Though it can be hard to know what he does when you’re not around, try to get a sense of whether he starts showing off more when you’re there. For example, if he starts telling a ridiculous joke or showing off his ability to juggle oranges just moments after you walk in the door, this behavior may be for your benefit.
– Jealousy: oh baby this one is strong. I’ve been experienced it, and of course I admit it. I may call this as an another dead giveaway that the boy has a crush on you. If he’s jealous of the guys you hang out with, then it can only be for one reason: because he likes you and feels threatened by them. Guys have different ways of showing that they’re jealous of other guys. He may just make fun of the guys to you, be rude or aggressive to the guys, or just roll his eyes and turn away from the other guys in your orbit. If he’s jealous of the guys you’re around, it’s because he wishes he had more quality time with you instead. Hey lady! Guys won’t admitted on jealousy cuz I don’t too. To be for notice, if he/she started acting weird or rude for a while, then it may be a sign of crush.
– Excuse: Mostly if the boy has a crush on you, then he’ll want to spend as much time with you as possible. He may suggest that you hang out after school to study together, or he may invite you to the mall to watch a movie with a big group of friends. He may go to a party just because he knows you’ll be there. He may ask what you’re up to and may conveniently say that he was thinking of doing the same thing. If it seems like he’s been around more often and that he’s been doing a lot of the same things as you, then it may be because he has a crush on you. But I never make an excuse for this. U know, I’m kinda straight toward person.
– Flirting: It may not always be easy to tell when a boy is flirting with you, and I’m agreed. A lot of it depends on his age – if he’s in middle school, his primary way of flirting may even be to tease you or to poke fun at you. Every age and stage of life has a slightly different definition of flirting, but the main thing is, if he singles you out, spends more time around you than others, is playful about something you say, do, or wear, and generally singles you out, even if you feel like it’s in a teasing way, then it means he’s flirting with you.
– Different treatment/take care: Within this point, it’s kinda so easy to check by just watch how he/she act around the other person. If he/she treats other person exactly the same way as he/she treats you, then he/she may not have a crush on you. But if he/she is pretty flirtatious with you and ignores or doesn’t care much for other person, then he/she may have a crush on you. Another option is that he/she will pay attention to other person and will kind of ignore you — as confusing as it is, this may also mean that he/she likes you and just feels shy toward you.
– Sweet favors: Another sign that he/she has a crush on you is that the boy/girl will find ways to do small favors for you. Maybe he/she will throw out your trash for you in class. Maybe he/she will help you carry your books. Maybe he/she will check what time a movie is playing for you. Even the little things count. Think about it. Do you feel like he/she is going out of his/her way to be helpful to you? If he/she does this for you but not for other person, then it may mean that he/she is doing favors for you because he/she has a crush on you. WaiT!! Don’t confuse this kind of favor with friend-zone stuff. In this mystery world, there is something “Good Boy” which is a friendly guy who does favors for everyone.
– Phone etiquette: Oh girls, try to observed his phone etiquette. Nowadays, one of the easiest ways to tell if a boy likes you is to see what he does when it comes to his phone. He may be too shy to truly communicate with you in person and may feel more comfortable getting to know you over the phone. Here are some signs that he may have a crush on you like, he asking for ur phone number, saving ur name in his contact as huni or baby or put kiss emoji in between ur name (I done that).
2. Check what he saying toward u:
– Checking questions: I’ve never done that, but according to my friend’s X, he did ask. If the boy asks you if you like anyone or if you have a crush on anyone, then this is a dead giveaway that he has a crush on you. He may be asking because he’s jealous or nervous that you like other guys, or because he’s secretly hoping that you’ll say that you like him. This may not be the most subtle way for him to go about it, but most boys don’t know better. If he’s always teasing you or bothering you about whether or not you like someone, then it may be because he has a crush on you. Well there is another drama playing this Questioning person. There is a time that the one who ask u is not the one who have crush on u girl. Eww!!
There is an exception in every rules baby girl. He may be asking you if you like someone because one of his friends likes you and he’s really asking for him. See if he has a friend who is always eyeing you and who you may think could have a crush on you instead.
– Self-Drama talks: If the boy is always telling you that none of the girls he knows are good enough for him, or that none of them are as smart, pretty, or interesting as you, then this may be his way of telling you that you’re the right girl for him. If he’s gone on dates with girls and tells you that he didn’t really like them, or if he’s always just telling you about how other girls never measure up, then this may be his way of telling you that you’re really the one for him. The exceptional rule for this one is that u shall make sure that he not asking u for advice which he meant u in his friend-zone. U know friends always asking each other for advice on stuffs.
– Compliments: Another sign that the boy has a crush on you is that he always finds a way to give you a compliment. He may not say something as obvious as, “You look so beautiful today,” But he may tell you that your dress is a pretty color, that he likes your new earrings, or that he thinks your new shoes are awesome. Just the fact that he notices how you look, what you do, or what you’re wearing shows that he pays attention to you and that he probably has a crush on you.
– Find out about your plans: It kinda sound scary but huni it’s not. Another sign that he has a crush on you is that he’s always asking what you’re up to over the weekend. He may really be asking because he wants to make sure that you’re not going on a date because he’s feeling jealous. He could also be asking as a way of asking you to hang out with him, or because he’s hoping that you’ll ask him to hang out with you. If he wants to know what you’re doing away from school, then it’s probably because he wants to be a part of it.
– Openness: If a boy has a crush on you, then he may open up to you about some of the stuff he’s been thinking and feeling. He could tell you about his favorite pet, his siblings, his friendships, or even his dreams for the future. If you find him telling you some things that seem personal, and if he even says something like, “I don’t tell many people this” or “Not a lot of people know that about me,” then it’s a sign that he thinks you’re special. If he has a crush on you, then he may open up to you more than he would to most people. Honestly, I think only 30% that all of us will do this one. I’m not!
– Nonsense laughs: As a boy has a crush on you, then he may be more nervous around you than he would be around other girls. This may lead him to laugh a lot more around you than he normally would. He may laugh really hard at something you say that’s barely funny, or he may even laugh slightly at something you said that wasn’t meant to be funny at all. The next time you’re together, pay attention to how much he laughs around you and see if he laughs more than normal. If so, then it may be because he has a crush on you.
3. Body languages
– Skinships: It’s only natural that if a boy likes you, he’ll go out of his way to touch you more. If you’re sitting next to each other and your knees or legs are touching, or if he keeps “accidentally” touching your feet with his, then it may be because he likes you. If you’re in a group setting and he tends to playfully push or shove you a lot, to poke you, or just to touch you in some other silly way, then this may also be a sign that he has a crush on you. Guys, stupid me..haha I done all these things. Eww!!
– Staring thief: This can be another sign that the boy has a crush on you. If you look over at him during math class and catch him looking at you, or if you see him looking at you all the way across the cafeteria, then it may mean that he has a crush on you. If he blushes and looks away, or just seems embarrassed that you’ve “caught” him staring at you, then it’s even more likely that he has a crush on you. Well, I done this one too T-T! The downside is that if you’re always trying to catch him staring at you, he’ll start to think that you’re the one who has a crush on him. But that’s true, isn’t it?
– Body movements: The next time you talk to the guy, see if he turns his chest, shoulders, and feet toward you, and if he generally points his body in your direction. If he has a crush on you, then he’ll want to be closer to you and to be absorbed in what you’re saying. He may even lean toward you to get closer during conversation. If he’s turned away from you, has his arms crossed, or is angling his shoulders in the opposite direction, then he may not have a crush on you after all. Though body language isn’t everything, it really can help you get a sense of whether a boy has a crush on you or not. I moved!! keke :p
– Fidgetiness: Fidgeting is a prime sign of nervousness. If the guy tends to play with the drawstring of his hoodie, pick at his nails, brush away an imaginary spot on his shirt, or kick at nothing when he’s around you, then it may be because he likes you and feels nervous. The next time you talk, see if he moves his arms and other body parts around more than usual. If so, then this may mean that he has a crush around you because he’s nervous about how he should act when you’re together.
– Preen-ness: If you see the guy fixing his hair, looking in a mirror or reflective surface, brushing a spot off his shoes, or adjusting his shirt or pants a bit when he’s around you, then it may be because he has a crush on you and is nervous about looking his best. The next time you talk, see if he acts a bit self-conscious about his appearance. If he does, then it may be because he likes you and wants to look his best. The fellows done stuff just like u girls huni. But make sure that he just want to look good to impress u. There are guys whom try to look like Prince of UK while on dating which is out of my conception.
– World light up: This is one of the biggest giveaways that the guy likes you. If you walk into a room, whether it’s a classroom or a birthday party, and his face lights up, his eyes get bigger, and a smile spreads across his face, then this may mean that he has a crush on you. He may not come over to you immediately, and he may act more coy about how he feels, but this first reaction shows that he really may have a crush on you after all.
– Attention: If a boy really has a crush on you, then he’ll be likely to give you all of his attention. He’ll turn his body toward you, make eye contact, and won’t look around for his other friends or text them during your conversation (unless he uses his phone as a crutch because he’s nervous). If his friends walk by and he doesn’t even see them, or if he doesn’t keep looking around the room, then it’s because he has a crush on you and is completely absorbed by you.
WELL WELL! beside all of the stuffs I wrote above, there some other sign that can show u that someone has crush on u too.
– After first meet, he/she add or follow u on social media like Facebok, Instagram, or Twitter.
– Invitation to do cool and amazing stuff. I’m not talking about sex stuff.
– Texting all day/night long. It kinda sweet, but who still did this thing? I’m not!
– Teasing also a good sign of crush too. Mostly 70% correct.
– Always show up whenever you got a “thing”.
That’s all for today topic. Thank u 😀
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